THE COUPLES INTENSIVE
Every conversation feels like a battle. Every silence feels like a wall.
You don’t need another place to vent. You need a clear playbook that stops the cycles and rebuilds the trust, respect, and intimacy you both crave.
Free strategy call to uncover a plan for couples who want to rebuild trust, respect, and real connection—Without Therapy or Guesswork
This isn’t couples therapy.
It’s private support and a strategic plan designed to cut through the noise, stop the reactive cycles, and rebuild the foundation of trust, respect, and intimacy you both deserve.
The Cycle of Frustration
For Him:
You feel like you’re walking on eggshells. Every conversation feels like a trap.
You want to fix it, but every solution you offer seems to backfire.
The emotional part is a locked box you can’t open.
For Her:
You’re exhausted from trying to be heard.
You want him to show up emotionally, but he shuts down or gets defensive.
You long to feel safe and cherished again, but the vulnerability isn’t there.
You feel like you’re carrying the weight of the marriage alone.
Unlearning the Fight
Break the old fight cycles with tools that calm conflict before it spirals.
Real Conversation
Learn the words that open her up — not shut her down.
Rebuilding Trust
Repair broken promises and build a consistent foundation of respect.
Blueprint for Intimacy
Reignite closeness in every area of your relationship, not just the physical.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
What Happens On The Call
This call is NOT about blaming.
It’s NOT therapy.
It’s a straight-up strategy session to help you make sense of what’s going on—and take control of what happens next.
On our 60‑minute call, we’ll:
Name Your Pain
Pinpoint the #1 dynamic driving disconnection
Pinpoint the Response
Decode your wife’s shutdown or criticism response.
Map Your Next Right Step
Outline a plan to lead your marriage forward with clarity and calm.
Decide What’s Next
See if the Rescue & Rebuild program is a good fit for your situation.
Why It Works (And What Makes This Different):
I’m Jim McKenzie—former divorce lawyer turned men’s relationship coach. I’ve worked with hundreds of husbands over the last 30 years, helping them rebuild trust and connection in marriages that felt like they were on the edge.
I get what it’s like to be successful in the outside world—and still feel like you’re failing at home.
This program is designed for busy men who don’t want to spend years in therapy.
You’ll learn how to:
Communicate without triggering her defenses.
Rebuild respect without begging or over-explaining.
Get her to open up again—without losing your own voice
What You'll Walk Away With:
By the end of your call, you’ll know:
What she’s actually reacting to under the surface.
Why your current approach isn’t working (and what will).
Whether she needs to be “on board” yet—or if you can start change on your own.
A clear action plan to break the pattern and rebuild connection.
Ready to Step Up?
If you’re serious about saving your marriage—and you’re willing to try a smarter approach—this is the first step.
It’s 100% Free.
Private & Confidential.
No pressure. Just clarity, direction, and options.
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Live Coaching Sessions
Private and personalized 1:1 coaching with me. My insight cuts through the noise and helps you make change at a deep, sustainable level. Plus, weekly group coaching & lifetime access to membership space- support from other men in your cohort can fast-track your progress.
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Step-By-Step Training Videos
A new module is released every week with several mini-lessons to keep you paced and on track. The space between modules gives you time to process and apply the practices in your life-perfectly paced for our 4-month experience.
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Lifetime Access To The Course
This program will keep you on track, taking action, accountable, and engaged... as well as build new patterns and help behaviors stick.
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Text & Voice Memo Support & Feedback
Text and voice memo are so great. If something arises in between our scheduled sessions, you can reach me easily and I can provide feedback and support every step of the way.
Our Commitment To You Lifetime Service Guarantee
This program has the power to profoundly change your life. We are so confident this will work for you that we give you a Lifetime Service Guarantee- we’ll work with you for life. We promise to stick with you until you reach your goal and beyond. If you ever slip back, we'll continue to work with you at no charge.